Essential Information for Family Members and Friends Re: Substance Misuse, Addiction, Treatment and Recovery
August 10th, 2010by Lisa Frederiksen
One of the most difficult aspects about changing how we view
and therefore talk about and therefore begin to treat addiction is the confusion over what it “really” is. Family members and friends, addicts and alcoholics will go to the ends of the earth trying to convince themselves that heavy use is not addiction; that this time really will be different than all of the other times; that all will go back to “normal” if s/he would just stop drinking/using. The swirling of conflicting emotions, beliefs, feelings, actions and inaction eventually starts to tear family members and friends apart.
Should any one person and/or all concerned accept the problem is more than something a loved one can just wrest control of — that a different kind of help is needed — new questions arise. How is it that addiction a brain disease? Or is it? How does someone “get” this disease? How is it different than just drinking or using too much? What do you mean, powerless? And, what is codependency? Science-based answers to these questions and more are now possible, thanks to 21st century brain and addiction-related research. The resulting findings are exploding long-held beliefs about substance abuse, addiction and addiction treatment, as well as what happens to the family members and friends — in other words, the impacts of secondhand drinking/drugging.
The pdf link below allows you to download my two-sided piece, titled, “Essential Information for Family Members and Friends Navigating the Path of a Loved One’s Substance Abuse and/or Addiction, Treatment and/or Recovery.” This piece provides some of the highlights of this new research and offers a starting point for changing views about addiction, treatment and/or recovery for the addict/alcoholic and the family members and friends.
BTC Essential Information For Family-Friends.8.8.10 (to start the pdf download, click on the small page-looking icon that appears)
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