Monthly Archives: September 2008

Social Host Laws

Here’s another news item for the discussion — passing social host laws. Santa Clara County, CA’s Board of Supervisors passed a Social Host Ordinance on September 23. Eight cities in the County already have them, but this ordinance will cover the unincorporated areas and hold adults responsible for underage drinking on private property. This wouldContinue Reading

What Were You Thinking?

What were you thinking?  How many of us have asked (okay, sometimes yelled) at our teen, “What were you thinking?” after another of their “stupid stunts?” That’s just the problem, they’re not thinking! Not only that – they can’t – or at least not the way an adult might. Thanks to new brain imaging technologies,Continue Reading

It Really Is a Disease

Alcoholism – it really is a disease – a chronic, often relapsing brain disease. Until I began all of this research, I had thought of a person’s drinking as either “normal” or “alcoholic.” Additionally, I thought alcoholic drinking was something that could be controlled – if the person wanted to badly enough. With this kindContinue Reading

Hang on when fear strikes…

Fear can really keep us stuck or send us spiraling – either way, it can wreck havoc in our lives. One of the more difficult things to do, in my opinion, is to “hang on” when fear strikes and things seem to be spiraling out of control. This is especially true when I’m faced withContinue Reading

Tatum O’Neal’s Story

I was particularly taken with Tatum O’Neal’s comments on Oprah Winfrey’s September 12th show (view excerpts here) about the shame and moral judgments that surround addiction — especially when Tatum said, “It is not something that should be kept in the closet. It’s not something I should be ashamed of.” As those of us visitingContinue Reading

More For the Discussion on Lowering the Drinking Age

Debra Saunders raises points in favor of lowering the drinking age in her column, “Old Enough to Fight, Old Enough to Drink,” appearing in Sunday’s, September 14 San Francisco Chronicle – click here to read what she has to say. Please add your thoughts to the discussion.Continue Reading

Lowering the Drinking Age to 18…Ret. Colonel Evan Hoapili Shares His Views

Lowering the Drinking Age to 18 in order to reduce underage drinking is an ongoing debate – especially in the military with the argument often posed: 18 year-olds can go to war but they can’t legally drink alcohol – how does that make sense? From someone who has direct experience with soldiers and underage drinking,Continue Reading

Lower the Drinking Age? Join the Debate…

Lower the drinking age – now, here’s a debate to weigh in on… For the past two decades, the legal drinking age in the United States has been 21. Recently, however, nine states have given voice to lowering the legal drinking age to 18, and three states have bills under legislative consideration. Additionally, some 100Continue Reading